Many people avoid setting boundaries early because they fear seeming demanding, but a kindly stated boundary usually increases respect, not distance.

Start with small, practical boundaries: texting pace, planning notice, or comfort with physical affection. First-person language works better than criticism.

State boundaries in calm, private moments, not during arguments, and keep them short. One or two sentences without over-explaining is enough.

The response matters most. Someone who listens and adjusts is showing respect; someone who argues, sulks, or ignores the boundary is giving you important information.